Tips & Fashion

Happy Monday loves,

January will make two years of me blogging full time. It has been such a rollercoaster, but I’m so happy to have gone through this journey with you guys. A lot of changes have occurred over the years; Instagram has made huge changes from when I first opened my page back in 2012. I remember when I had started out around 5k followers and now we are at over 200k. As things changed and evolved so did my career. 2016 was the year I decided to quit my job and focus on my brand full time. I really wasn’t prepared but I knew I had to make it happen. The struggles came along big time but I learned throughout my journey that being consistent was KEY.

I wanted to share some tips for those who are new to blogging. Hope this helps for you as it did for me!

1. Consistency. Always be consistent in the things that you want to accomplish.

2. Be authentic (Instagram feed or any other social media handle will drive you crazy, I’ve seen it happen so much and it has happened to me at some point) Don’t try to be like the next big thing. In other words…be yourself!

3. For those who want to engage with followers on their IG. Look at your IG stories like a story book. Just like when reading a great book, you want to make sure your IG story grabs your audience. That is how you gain real people that want to know who you are.

4. Not everything is a paid campaign. Make sure you also have a passion for blogging. For years I blogged and made no money. Fast forward to now, some months are amazing and some months are slower than others. Accept that this is what happens, even at your highest peak. Save as much as you can and your bills in advance that helps me a lot. 

5. With that being said, not everything FREE is good. Don’t get caught up on the FREEBIES. This can sometimes be a problem because people fall into promoting products they don’t even believe in. Invest in items that are key for you and your blog. Eventually those PR will notice and brands will want to work with you.

6. Sacrifice….even if that means long nights and long days. You have to sacrifice a lot of time building your brand. You need to be in the same mindset as well.

7. When taking your own pictures, for filters I use VSCOM and Facetune.

8. Invest in a good camera or a good photographer. That is VERY important. @Thugnanny_ is my Main photographer. 

9. If you decide that you want to make blogging full time, make sure you have a good platform that genuinely follow you because of the content you provide. If you decide to make blogging full time, make sure you’re ready to work 24/7.

10. It’s ok to not have a team in the beginning. Listen, I wish (especially now that I’m sick) that I had 5 girls doing my blog duties but I don’t and it’s ok! How are you suppose to be a good blogger if someone else is doing the work for you? Sometimes you have to do things all on you own if need be, and as you grow, so will your brand, and a team will come out of it.

11. People always ask me if I make good money. I am at a point now where I am finally seeing the fruition of my labor, but it was and still is hard work. I still at times work for free if I believe in the product but I don’t sell myself short at all. I’m able to pay my bills, save & take care of needs so YES God has been a good provider. 

12. Organization is also key- have a calendar with your events, posts and your blog posts. I sometimes forget some of my events so making sure I stay up to date on my calendar is vital. Being organized is super important in this industry.

13. Last but most importantly having a balance is a must. I learned these past few weeks how important health is. Yes, I have a dream but what good is it If I’m sick or not well. Learn to balance everything out. Being your own boss is time consuming, but I’ve learned to really prioritize and make time for the things that are important to me besides my career, like Family and my health. Find what makes you happy and learn to balance all the things in your life equally.

Hope this helps a bit. As time goes by I keep learning, growing and I remain positive that GOD has opened this path for me and for everyone who has a dream. Go after your dream but also take care of yourself. ❤


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    priscilla renfroe
    December 5, 2017 at 4:25 pm

    Great advice! I am still in prayers for your complete total healing.

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      December 5, 2017 at 4:49 pm

      Thank you doll.

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    December 5, 2017 at 4:59 pm

    Thank you so much for your words of encouragement. I am an upcoming blogger and appreciate your advice to improve my site and business!

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    Kayra Merrills
    December 5, 2017 at 5:01 pm

    Awesome advice!! Thank you!!

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    December 5, 2017 at 5:04 pm

    Thank you Kyrzayda! I love that consistency was your #1 because many if ys get motivated and work hard pne day but don’t follow up once we don’t see immediate results. All bout consistency. Thanks for for sharing. Verh helpful & motivating!

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    Sharee Sloan
    December 5, 2017 at 5:13 pm

    I greatly appreciate these words of wisdom! Always praying you!

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    December 5, 2017 at 5:30 pm

    I wish you well! I’m a portuguese girl who loves fashion and I’ve copied so many of your outfits! Sorry but it’s true 🙂 I was wondering if you could probably write on your Instagram what your symptoms were because lots of us sometimes are not aware of simply body signals. Again, thank you so much for inspiring me all the time! I have three kids and all I ever see online is fashion for the skinny and naked hehheee and I love sexy yet dressed – if you know what I mean💃🏻 Que Deus te abençoe❤️ Instagram:shanabta

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    December 5, 2017 at 5:42 pm

    Thank you so much for all of these tips! You are one of my favorite bloggers and I keep you in my prayers daily. In the beginning, my mom used to take my blog photos but when I started working with my friend a few months ago and using his camera which has muchhh better quality than mine, I did see a change in my engagement and my Instagram started to grow. It is hard to grow organically these days due to the algorithm and a lot of your followers not seeing your posts daily, but I am focusing on other social as well (Facebook, Pinterest,etc) and of course, working on my blog. It is a lot of work and I am constantly working on it!

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    December 5, 2017 at 7:27 pm

    Love the tips! Definitely some nuggets I can use. Many prayers for you as you endure this season of your life! God is able…🙏🏼

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    Todd A.K. Martin
    December 5, 2017 at 7:45 pm

    Awesome advice for the beginner blogger especially keeping things balanced in your Life
    Take care


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    Miriam Reid
    December 5, 2017 at 8:05 pm

    Thank you so much for the tips. They are very much greatly appreciated. You look fabulous as always. I hope you’re getting better and better as the days pass on 💜😉

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    LaTeisha Clement
    December 5, 2017 at 8:48 pm

    This was so helpful and encouraging. Thank you! You touched on all of the issues that are so practical, giving insight to those of us that are building our brands. It is uplifting to know you’ve been through the same struggles I am going through, and can still be as fashionable as you are! Go girl and give God the glory, as you’re already doing. 🙏🏽😍 I’m inspired. ☺️

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    Ewa Macherowska
    December 6, 2017 at 6:15 am

    This look is everything! x

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    Reni Baez
    December 6, 2017 at 8:17 am

    Sorry I’m a new follower. I thought we were supposed to put our Ig name. Noticed my message didn’t go thru. Want to reiterate thank you for emphazing consistency. I specifically needed that this week so thanks for pushing us!

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    December 6, 2017 at 11:59 am

    You are living the dream! I love your passion for god, family and life and nobody hustles like you. Your positivity and hard work inspires me. And I’m totally stealing this look LOL.

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    Jaimee WilliAms
    December 6, 2017 at 2:15 pm

    Great advice k! I’m a 27 year old fashion stylist here in Houston Texas that’s about to start up my own blog! I’ve been brainstorming some time now . 1/1/18 it’s time to press play !

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    December 10, 2017 at 1:42 am

    Love all of these tips! Thanks so much for sharing! I’ve always struggled with consistency with the blog, so really looking to work on that. You’ve truly been an inspiration to me since the beginning and I’m still praying for you!

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    December 11, 2017 at 10:59 pm

    LOVE the advice. I look for post like this one to help guide me and help figure out what steps I should be taking. For the most part, the ones I have read are just not practical. Your advice really felt very genuine and like you really want to help those just starting out . Thank you for this!!

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    December 12, 2017 at 12:03 am

    Awesome advice that can be applied to many professions! Your energy is amazing. Sending love and light.

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    Celeste Knight
    December 12, 2017 at 1:45 pm

    Thank you for sharing! I have been blogging for a year now and it’s nice when fellow bloggers share advice and paint it in a realistic way. May God continue to bless you! Cheers to many more years of blogging for you!!

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    Irene Mack-Smith
    December 13, 2017 at 11:39 am

    Good Day,
    I’ve been following you for over a year now and I have enjoyed your vision. I am now in constant prayer for your
    health and well being everyday! May god continue to shower you with love, strength & hope. Fashion will always be here but rarely do you see a beautiful, spiritual Christian being like yourself and that is a special gift. Swag with God in your heart!

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    December 23, 2017 at 10:54 pm

    This was so encouraging and helpful! Thank you for sharing such wisdom. I’m praying that God blesses you and heals you completely:)

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